I have been blessed to be a part of many an inner circle. I have been the one people confide in, trust, and rely on. I have been both the shield and the resistance against outside commentary.
Thus, I take a sympathetic stance to what I consider a breach in the inner circle. An accidental slip of the tongue, too much written at the bottom of an IG post combined with folks with NO business of their own has turned nothing into something quickly.
There was no intent to share anyone's business. There was no consent to have business that the inner circle is privy to, shared with the world. That's why there was the edit. That's why things written were taken down and rewritten.
Tell me this hasn't happened to you? You haven't said too much too soon and found yourself telling a story that wasn't yours to tell or implying more than you meant to? Its happened to me. I've both said too much and had too much said about me.
Consider what it might feel like to have something you're not hiding but not discussing, openly debated. Here's an interesting concept: If there was a reason for you to have the information you think you have, you'd have it. You wouldn't need to speculate.
Let people live.
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